3 Easy Bedroom Feng Shui Tips For a Happy and Balanced Relationship

If you've read more than one Feng Shui book, and tried to implement the recommendations without the assistance of a Feng Shui expert, you may have gotten too confused to proceed. I have clients who tried to Feng Shui their home after reading Feng Shui for "non smart people", and still required my services to get a deeper and more personal level of assistance. The reason for this is that a true Feng Shui professional goes through many years of studies to become certified, and then continually receives advanced training and hones skills even further through countless client contact. My goal as a Feng Shui expert is to clarify and simplify what you can do right now for your bedroom in order to have a balanced and happy relationship.

Here are my top 3 recommendations, which you will be able to implement instantly and with very little effort. You probably already have these items in your home, if not already in your bedroom, and all you need to do is place them in the correct location.

Why is location so important to achieve the goals you desire? It's not only important, it's crucial, because the brain has an ancient memory of place, ingrained since the time when man first inhabited caves. This memory guides your brain and helps you understand the messages your surroundings are sending to you. For this very reason, there are areas within your space where you feel the safest, and other areas where you feel welcomed or connected to your desires for the future. No different than product placement at your favorite grocery store, where objects are placed can keep your brain connected to your goals.

Recommendations:

1. Bed Placement:

If you're in a relationship, or even if you simply desire to be in one, the location of your bed is of critical importance. Where your bed is located within your bedroom actually can send very different messages about your wishes for the future. Suffice it to say that your bed should be in the Future Quadrant of your bedroom because it sends the message that you desire a loving relationship from this moment forward. Any other location will relate to other forms of connections: friendship, physical, learning, etc. Since my intention is to make these recommendations easy to apply, you can find the Future Quadrant by standing in the doorway to your bedroom and looking at the center of the wall that is straight ahead. Place your bed there and the message you will send is that of desiring a loving relationship.

2. Nightstands:

We all have our own unique vision of the loving relationship we desire. Most of us though definitely prefer a balanced and happy one. The best way to underscore this ideal is to have a pair of nightstands. The message this sends out, whether you're in a relationship or just desire one, is that you each have equal access to a surface on which to place the objects you require when in bed: a lamp for reading, a book, an alarm clock, etc. I also ask my clients what their specific desires are when it comes to their relationship, and may recommend two identical nightstands or two different ones. Just make sure that they both have an equal size and volume in order to send the message of balance and equality.

3. A Loving Image:

This third tip will truly accentuate the visual link to your goals, as the saying goes: "A picture is worth a thousand words!" Find a beautiful picture of you and your partner in a loving pose, or if not yet in a relationship, find a picture that reminds you of the relationship you desire. For this recommendation to have its most profound effect, place your loving image in the Relationship Quadrant of your bedroom. When you stand in the doorway looking in, the Relationship Quadrant is in the back right corner of your bedroom. If you have a nightstand in this area you can place it there, or hang it on the wall in this corner. This image will be a reminder, each time you enter your bedroom, of the loving relationship that fills your heart.

These 3 recommendations are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to what you can do to Feng Shui your bedroom for a happy and balanced relationship. But, they are the best and easiest way to get started on your way!